I am not perfect but i don’t say i am behind. I did all my best to be successful in my life and in my career. I become always happy with my career and can still work with under pressure. My boss take me to the advance level of position. I can say i am successful when it comes to my career, But what I don’t understand how something so much fun and beautiful turns to pain and sadness. How he was chasing me in the beginning and now that has disappeared. All these years in my family life and other dating relationships I have been the giver totally and the romantic one. But in the beginning it always starts with them chasing me and being romantic and doing nice things for me and all in vain. It is so engraved in me to be giving and give that it probably ended my relationship because I got tired of giving and giving, loving and loving but still for once and for all i am being ignored and neglected. I hate myself to be always the giver. I need to be loved truly.
Category Archives: Relationship
Stay with God
What a beautiful way to start a Sunday Morning. I looked out my window this morning and looked around, I saw all the wonderful blessings, that God has given to us. And with all this beauty before my eyes… The one special blessings that comes to mind was the good family and life that i have now. God is so good for us creating the beautiful world. He brings us happiness and joy in place of sorrow. He is our forever life and lasting help. Thank God for all the encouragement, He places in our lives to keep us going on. In choosing to believe in Jesus is our own choice, choosing to believe in what the Bible says is my own choice. The Bible is the word of God, how can you believe in it if you don’t believe in God. In my opinion devil was just around to be able to test how much we love God, how tight and strong is our relationship with God. I know what you’re going through, but just be strong. Hold your guard because the evil one is always at work.. Stand firm to the truth you have and hold on to it, pray when you think and feel that you are tempted.
Heartache
I always heard from my parents and other people saying that pick a good guy or pick the right man. But no matter how and what choosy you are, the power of love will just comes in, it only happens you like it or not. I can say that I am a broken-hearted because i know he will never respect me the way that I respected him. He always hurts and cheated me. I was with him for 13 years and i’ll just found out that he was dating and living in with another woman through all this time. I met him and expects he will love me how I care for him…how can you tell someone that you love them, you kiss them, tell them your goals and fears, look at them in the eyes and say you love them and gave everything and do something like that. It makes me wonder is it worth of loving again. It is hard to find someone that is worth of keeping but for every broken heart there is always one for you no reason to be telling us about how your past love life etc… you can still find your love one and trust me even how long it will takes, for sure it is worth of waiting.
Problem with your boyfriend?
Break ups with boyfriend is common to every relationship. For some reasons if man leaves you it’s just simply means that his basic needs does not met, and if his basic needs are being met, then he will be satisfied being a one woman man.
One of the biggest reasons a man would leave is if for some reason he feels trapped in a relationship is the Freedom – if a man feels like he doesn’t have the freedom to be himself and do as he wishes that is a big motivator for making a man leave. A man does not want to have to change himself or his lifestyle to have a women. That is why one of the biggest mistakes women can make is to be regularly criticizing his man, making demands on him, complaining, or anything that sends the message ‘you need to change’.
Similar to number two keeping your man on a short leash – if your man feels as though he constantly has to call you to tell you where he is and when I’ll be home almost as if you are his mother that is a sure turn off and that is something that could make a man leave.
I want to be loved
At my younger age i worked “hard” in getting a man to love me, i probably know on the firsthand that approach doesn’t work very well. So what i did i tried to be very sexy and attractive by wearing the right clothes or saying the right things rarely gets a man hooked on me emotionally. I’ve been very accommodating and nice usually gets more in the friend zone than love. It takes a certain way of being with a man that makes him take notice and feel a longing for you. It’s not about doing or trying, it’s about being the most feminine, authentic and self-assured woman you can be. It’s something you can learn to do, even though what you’re doing is just getting rid of the old patterns and pitfalls that don’t work. What I finally discovered, after years of more men and experiences like this, was that – no matter what it looked like on the outside, if I believed that the jelly I was feeling like inside was bad and ugly, and believed I had to hide it from everyone, especially men, and so I had to appear tough and together on the outside – always smiling.
How will partnership work out ?
First trust your capabilities. You know more yourself why you always fight with your partner ? Was it just a stupid disagreement or are you really unable to get along with. Arguments about stupid things are often a sign of more deep misunderstanding so don’t just ignore it. If you were continuously fighting arguing about the same little things, for sure your relationship will not become successful.
If you need that your relationship will work, here are some tips that I would like to share with you:
1. You must not just love each other; Try hanging out together like best friends.
2. You must have the sense of humor. It’s a great mood if partners can make even both laugh.
3. You must openly express your feelings. Talk all over in a nice way and remain calm.
4. You must have chore sharing, one of the most important factor in happy relationship.
5. You must stay in physical contact in some way throughout the day. (I am not talking with sex.)
6. You must show some closeness like social, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects.
7. You must also maintain separate friendship just for satisfaction and to have a greater balance within your relationship.
8. You must be a reliable partner; do what they say and say what they do.
9. You must also have vision or goal for your future.
10. It is just a matter of RESPECT and TRUST in order that your relationship will work.
You may have to work hard to persuade them. If you always hurting each other regularly, you may now ask yourself if you are the right partner. Just remember we don’t usually upset the person we love. If you really love your partner, don’t do anything that will hurt each other. It is difficult to go along with any relationship if you are always hurting your partner, your love will not last forever.